What to do First?

What comes first? The colors? The caterer? The photographer? The DJ? The invitations? Oh yeah, and what about one of the most important things.... my dress?? Unless I'm getting married in one of my Vegas dresses I better get searching for my wedding gown now! (No Mom, I promise I won't wear one of those dresses, so don't freak out!) So much to do! I've made a list, and we are slowly checking things off. We did book the venue, so that is a huge item off our list. On to the next thing... We really need to get a good DJ.... anybody got a good reference? A good DJ is the key to a successfully fun party. So this is next on our to-do list. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! --Kim